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The One Choice That Will Make All the Difference in Following Your Dreams

October 29, 2014 by admin  
Filed under Purpose and Passion

Are you casually allowing a negative inner voice to make your most important decisions?

I’ve been a career/success coach for almost 25 years and I can tell you this. Nothing will hold back your right life more than listening to the wrong voice. Your net-(un)worth doesn’t matter. Your age, education, or an even the fact that you work 3 full time jobs, or maybe it justfeels that way, doesn’t matter. The love within you has the key to a thousand capacities you don’t even know you have. But you may, instead, be listening to a dark voice that spits acid and rat pellets at you, while claiming to be “practical,” and just shooting for a nice, safe retirement is all.

But your inspired life will never come from listening to your demons. The life that every fiber of you desires, even if you don’t know how to name it, will never come from listening to painful conclusions about your past. If something is still painful, it’s not resolved. It’s not blessed. It’s not yet understood. It’s not an indication of the life that calls you now.

Any voice that tells you can’t trust yourself is not a voice I’d trust.

This voice may sound parental or like a teacher or like the commentators on news shows funded by pharmaceutical companies that want to sell you drugs for your fears. But any voice that does not ignite and invigorate your path is a demon. Demons talk about the future. They talk about the past. But the surge of your original wisdom is in the present moment. Do not lose touch with what you desire, because some part of you wants to plan ahead for a future you can’t see or compare this time to a warped narration of a prior time.

If you want to realize your dreams in your lifetime, then practice self-love like you mean it. It’s a commitment. It’s strength-building. Some days there will be pathetic attempts. I’d call it spell-binding progress. Because deciding, in any way, to believe in your own potential will make all the difference in your life. Start telling yourself you’ve got the goods to make it. You’re going to go all the way. I don’t care if it feels awkward or suspect or like you’re giving yourself a certificate of recognition just for rolling out of bed. If you are not actively championing yourself, believe me, you are drowning. And I care way too much about the gifts you have to give this world to let that happen.

Louise Hay the iconic guru and author of You Can Heal Your Life who famously healed herself of cancer, teaches the basis of her healing was saying “I love and approve of myself.” I come from New York City where “I love and approve of myself” sounds more fluffy than a white toy poodle or like the opening of a wicked skit on Saturday Night Live. Still, I believe in generations to come they will recognize these words as medicine. They will teach them in schools. You will pledge allegiance to the flag of your country, and then you will pledge allegiance to yourself.

In the Westernized world, we think that living our dreams means acquiring money, record labels, and a pass to coast just as we are, for the rest of our lives.

But following your desires is a call to the infinite. It’s a call to break free from ongoing self-delusional thoughts. You are called to heal every part of yourself that ever thought less of itself.

That’s the price of admission. That’s why following your bliss can demand more of you than following your conditioning.

The larger the life you move into, the more you will be called to trust in the Presence of a Love and Intelligence that is beyond your linear mind. Your greatest desires will call you to go where you have never been before. You will be tempted to think you’ve gone too far. But the glimpse of something more will impel you to trust in something more. And you will say yes, while everything small within you begs for a rain check. But you will say yes, because everything sane within you will not allow you to take a rain check on your life.

I wrote my first book This Time I Dance! Creating the Work you Love, when I left the practice of law. I wrote about the challenges of leaving my career, but also about leaving behind all the savage beliefs that had driven me to ignore my instincts and make a draining career choice instead.

Finding my passion was an “undoing” process, more than a “doing” process.

I had to undo my conditioning, which constrained me more than I imagined. As an overworked highly stressed attorney, I felt as though there were bits of glass in my body. Every one of those pieces of broken glass was a sharp cruel belief about myself or about what it took to succeed at life. You’re not normal. You’re an unrealistic wishful thinker. You need to grow up. You can’t make a living doing what you love. You need to be really talented and connected to get somewhere in this world, and you don’t have it. Each one of these beliefs stung me every time I dared to take a step towards freedom. I had to learn how to replace these negative beliefs with self-accepting and encouraging ones. This was the real work of changing my life. I titled my book This Time I Dance! because I wanted to move with abandon. I wanted to be free of all the pain that held me back.

When I put out my second book Inspired and Unstoppable: Wildly Succeeding in Your Life’s Work! I moved into new territory in my career as a published author, speaker, and coach. New territory brought up old demons.  Some of my deepest insecurities marched over to the bar and ordered drinks and appetizers on my tab. At first, I thought that experiencing my old insecurities again was a sign of failure. Now I’m convinced it was progress. Because when you move towards abundance, beliefs that may have held you back before rise to the surface. This is the chance to do it differently. This is how we grow. Great success comes from great choices. And we are always given more opportunities to house clean any negative beliefs about ourselves or the world.

The wisdom path A Course in Miracles teaches, that it’s not our mission to seek for love or goodness. Instead, we seek to “remove the blocks to the awareness of love’s presence.” We are not here to figure out better strategies for getting what we want.  We are here to let go of the blocks that are in the way. The way is already the way. It’s already here. We are here to love ourselves. We are here to let go of all our false beliefs so that our true power takes center stage. Our false beliefs lie dormant when we hang out in the familiar. They only rush to the surface when we approach more light. That’s why you may feel more insecure when you’re embracing even more of your potential.

If you are moving toward your dreams, this is the time to increase your dedication to self-love. Become a warrior and a devotee. This is no time to criticize yourself in any way. There is a creation in you like no other. Something beautiful wants to use your hands, your feet, your tongue, and the hours you have left on this earth. You will never regret having been honest with yourself, true to yourself, and silencing the jadedness within you. Be a cheerleader for the team you really want to play for. Be a nest and a cradle for something new and beautiful on this planet, and the experience of your lifetime.

Copyright © Tama Kieves  All rights reserved.

Tama J. Kieves is the bestselling author of THIS TIME I DANCE! Creating the Work You Love (How One Harvard Lawyer Left It All to Have It All!) and is a sought-after speaker and career coach who has helped thousands world-wide to discover and live their true work in the world. Visit her at www.ThisTimeIDance and sign up for free inspiration and support through her monthly e-newsletter or download her Free Transformational Report on “Finding Your Calling Now.”

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